Chilln' in our new digs!
Well, Joe and I have moved into our new digs. A studio apartment that is furnished. Yep, we’ve gotten rid of all of our furniture and downsized all that extra stuff that you don’t realize is accumulating in drawers, closets, and bins! Granted we still have stuff to get rid of, and we are going to do quarterly sweeps of our stuff. So every few months we are going to go through our bins, Tupperware, and kitchen stuff and get rid of things we have not used. Currently I am doing the hanger swap from those plastic hangers to some thinner ones, if I still have items on plastic hangers after so long then that clothing will be donated!
We have been in our new studio for almost a month now and we are doing well. People are always shocked when we tell them of the small space we are now living in and what our future plans are. We’ve heard “well, you really got to like the person” um duh and we do. Joe and I can occupy the same space and still be focused on individual things. Yesterday was a prime example…
Sunday’s usually are not my best day…. I get the Sunday funk pretty bad and now that we are getting into darker days and gloomy winter weather, well it’s not a good combo for my depressed tendencies. Some Sunday’s I’m good and I feel o.k. but yesterday was a struggle. I did manage to shower *high five* but that was the extent of my movement, oh I did wash and put away laundry *high five* but the rest of the day, ALL of Sunday, I was on the internet. I attempted to read but that lasted 5 minutes. As a social worker, I know this type of activity is not healthy but as I tell my folks as long as you don’t build a house in that funk it’s o.k. to have a day or two. Joe also has his Sunday funk and like me, sometimes it’s worse than others. He had a decent Sunday, he even worked out! He spent most of his internet browsing in a more productive fashion by doing research. I felt bad for being a lazy butt but Joe in our relationship fashion, was not judgmental, did not force anything on me, and just gave me my space to do absolutely nothing and not feel totally bad about it. This all went down in a studio apartment all day. Even when we have our moods/funks/etc. we are able to not feed into it, make it worse, or feel weird about it! How amazing is that?!
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1 comment:
I'm glad you're moved in and doing well. We all have shitty days, and you're right,as long as we don't camp out there, we're okay.
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