I did my run this morning, yeah for me:) Then took Sami for her walk. I can't believe on Sunday I'm flying out of here with Phoenix! It hasn't sunk it yet, hell I've barely looked at my tickets! I did get some more herbs yesterday though:) I haven't really been taking them and I've been doing good, but I figured I shouldn't chance it with the travels!
I applied for UH yesterday. Hopefully this is the LAST time I ever have to apply at a college again. Filling out my form I realize that I will have attended 7 colleges before UH!!! OMG! That's a pain in the butt when it comes to transcripts!
Today is back to work-which is good (I get $ and I'm focused on other things) and bad (I really don't want to go).
I don't understand why people have to beat around the bush? I've done it in a relationship once and it was not my finest moment, as a matter of face I was the worse that I could be in a relationship at that time. Because I was so insecure in the relationship and I felt something was wrong I looked at this person's email and even text messages on his phone. Granted it was pretty clear cut that my "hunches" were correct-he was flat out lying to me and going back to another women....but that's neither here nor there, I was being sneaky and I was disgusted with myself. I've learned there is less heartache when you just come out and ask, even if you did something wrong. Sneakiness=bad stuff. To top things off instead of just being an "adult" and saying hey I did this and saw this, what's up with that? I beat around the bush and asked endless questions even though I already knew the answers. When he continued to lie to me I continued to get hurt, mad, and my imagination went crazy....all because I was too scared to just come out and ask (it would of ended a lot of drama/speculation probably a lot earlier).
So....where is all this coming from? A similar situation just happened yesterday, but I knew why I was getting asked the same question over and over again. I should have called him out right then and there but I didn't (I sent an email this morn, and so far nothing), and unlike my situation where the guy WAS lying and hiding things I am not. If I was I wouldn't post my websites where I know he can see them and check them out, I'm not stupid.
So after my run and my head it clear....I am tired of the BS.
I am not in a place in my life where I want to be in a committed relationship and who knows when this will change. If people think that I will eventually commit, settle down, and pop out some babies....
As some girls in my unit have said......
They've picked the wrong bitch!
Just trying to figure this whole life thing out... "Living involves tearing up one rough draft after another." ~Author Unknown
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
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